Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Trudging Along...

Sorry about the lack of posts!  There hasn't been much to post about.  I'm working, Sean's staying at home, and Matt is getting cuter and cuter.  
Only one new thing to report:  Sean has a job lead!  Yay!  He contacted ITT tech, (who got him his last job), and the career advisor sent his resume to a job recruiter, who sent it on to a company.  They liked it a lot and he was supposed to have his interview with the recruiter and the company today, but ended up just interviewing with the recruiter (who really liked him).  If hired, he will be a database administrator to a warehousing company in Rialto, which is closer than his last job.  They made him take a test on the stuff he'd be doing (something called Sequol), and he got an 88%.  The average is 60%, and the recruiter was excited.  Hopefully he will get called in for the real interview soon, and he will have a job!  BTW, database administrator pay is pretty good--supposed to be $20 an hour or $40,000/yr.  Of course they might not hire him at that, but anything helps!  And I could go back to part time--yay! 
But I've got to try not to get my hopes up.  Just hard because the last interview led to him being offered the job on the spot--and it could happen again!  
Anyway I have pics and all that good stuff, and I'll post them later.  Right now I have to not let napping time go to waste and take a shower.  

Saturday, October 11, 2008

Bad News!

I don't have much time, but I just want to update everyone on what happened. Yesterday, Sean got laid off, along with 1/3 of his company.
I am going back to full time status as soon as possible, which will not be until the second week of November.
Of course Sean is doing everything he can to find a job. He is filing for unemployment on monday (online application didn't work, because they asked if he had been in the military and when he said "yes", they wanted discharge papers and of course he hasn't been discharged yet).
We're going to seize this opportunity to get Medi-Cal and food stamps (free food, yay) and to spend quality family time we didn't have before.
Gotta run though--late to work!!

Tuesday, October 07, 2008

Pointless Poll

I'm sorry I made a poll making everyone think they had a say in his costume decision.  Turns out, my friend Jody has a perfect condition Tigger costume which is super adorable (and free!); plus, Matt loves it!  I'll post pictures of him in it soon--gotta get to yucky cleaning!
Oh as a side note--I've lost my voice!  I feel better, but no voice!  Makes talking to Matt much more adventurous.  He got mad at me this morning when he was throwing a temper tantrum over something little and I told him I didn't negotiate with terrorists (I hadn't had caffeine yet).  
Well...let's just say I think he has different foreign policy views!

On another side note--maybe Tigger qualifies as a fairy.  (thereby validating the poll)

Monday, October 06, 2008

A Lesson In Being A Mom

Something amazing happened today!  Well, it probably won't be amazing to any parent reading this, but I got taught a good lesson from Prince Matt himself.
We had just gotten home from a long day.  I've been sick for a few days, and today was the first day of real work and I was exhausted.  Matt was all day at the daycare, and that always wears him out.  We had to swing by work because I forgot something, and then we made a pit stop at Toys R Us (didn't buy anything, they were out of stock of the table and chair set I---Matt---wanted).  Anyway, by the time we got home and walked the dogs, it had been a pretty tiring day.  As soon as I sat down to rest, Matt started whining and went to his normal seat at the table, indicating he wanted to eat.  So, being the really wonderful mom I am, I made him some happy face 10-layer lasagna from scratch, along with an elaborate tasty-looking outdoor scene made from veggies all while cleaning my kitchen and dancing with Matt.
Ok..I made him a peanut butter sandwich.  Hey--he'd eaten well all day!  Anyway, they're his favorite right now, good source of protien, and easy.
Well right away as soon as he saw the sandwich he began to scream.  He screamed when I put him in the chair and he tried to throw it across the room.  He pointed to my water, I gave it to him and he tried to throw it.  He screamed when I took them away.  When I put them back.  And so on.  Then Dad came home and that made everything worse (more audience!).  He didn't want to eat it on our laps or walking around.  Finally we ask him what he wants and he goes to the fridge and picks out yogurt.  Fine--so we give him yogurt and he seems happy.  A couple spoonfuls in, however, he decides he is done and starts screaming louder than before and threw himself on the floor and banged his head on the floor several times.  I was appalled--I'd seen him act like this before but this time I felt really bad for him.  He obviously wanted something and he couldn't express it and he was frustrated--though I think his body and his mind wanted different things.
We tried holding him, letting him go--nothing.  More screaming and throwing fits.  Sean said shower?  And I told him no, Matt didn't want a shower.  Sean got mad because that always cheers him up and I didn't want to.  Not that I didn't want to, but I just KNEW it was something else.  I knew he needed to be shown that he was loved and understood, and not just keep offering things up until he took something.  Sean left (he had to go somewhere), and I took Matt into his room, shut the door, and rocked him in his chair, even as he was screaming.  I didn't say anything and suddenly!  He relaxed, gave one big shuddering sigh, and looked up into my eyes and didn't break contact for a whole minute!  (remember, this is the kid with the attention span of a fly).  He then started smiling, and turned around and hugged me and rested his head.  After about 20 minutes of that (and eventually some talking and a few books), I asked him if he was hungry.  He said yes, and I asked him if he wanted to eat his sandwich and he went to the door.
He sat down and ate his sandwich perfectly, and did everything I told him happily (throw away the rest, put your plate away, go get me a diaper, get undressed).  Just an amazing turnaround.  No fussing for anything (so unusual near bedtime), and when it was time for bed I hugged him again, told him to get into bed, and he went.  Laid down, no crying, let me tuck him in and leave.  
So my lesson was:  Sometimes even though I'm really tired and have had a bad day, and it would be so nice to give him an easy fix, he just needs mom even if he doesn't say it.  And only mom--no dogs, phones, tvs or anything.  It was so refreshing and made everything better.  Yay!

Friday, October 03, 2008

Sick Baby!

Matt is sick. He didn't eat dinner Wednesday night, which I didn't think much of, because sometimes he is a fussy eater. I tried to make him eat, but he wouldn't. Oh well, I thought, he'll be so hungry tomorrow he'll gobble breakfast down. Well yesterday he didn't want breakfast. I tried his favorite cereal--no response. Then an hour later I tried to feed him his favorite oatmeal. He looked happy when I made it, but only ate one bite then pushed it away. Soon after, he was walking around and came up to me and suddenly vomited everywhere! Poor guy! I cleaned him up and cuddled with him, and he slept for a long time. I called the doctor and she said not to worry and to give him pedialyte. So I did, and he drank it down. He didn't eat dinner either and he hasn't eaten much today. So, (he's waking up, gotta type fast!), Sean took today off, and got out of drill this weekend so he can be with Matt while I work. Sean still has to go in tonight, but I got off early. Poor little guy! Wish him luck!